Friday, August 10, 2012

KimberlyLove: Kimberly Love On: No Strings Attached Relationships

I was watching a movie called sexting the other day the movie?itself?was about people who played other people using them for sex obviously. To rap it all up the two man characters the two biggest players having 2 to 3 people on the side but then they met and they fell head over for each other (of course). Then the girl's in the man's life finds out that he was a player and try to?embarrass?him the the girl that he was really interested finds out and is?devastated. When he goes to apologize to her and finds out about her "affairs" and then gets hurt but then they both talk to people older and wiser and they work through the problem and HAPPY ENDING!

Actually the movie wasn't as corny as I made it seem it was quite good. But it left me asking why on earth do people who aren't in a committed relationship get up set when they find out the other person is having relations with some on else?

Maybe it's just because I am (was) a player. I have had my fair share of guys all on my roster now they didn't know about any of them thought they were the only ones, even though some of them had common sense knowing that they aren't the only ones. They weren't mad they let it go because I wasn't the only one for them and?that's?fine to me.

Some weren't though some when I made?comments?about having other guys even if they were jokes thye would be like 'oh really'? And go on a tangent get all in their feelings and then I'd have to fuck their brains out for them to?at least?shut up about it.

But what I don't understand is, if you're not in an official relationship and you guys aren't fully committed to each other. I'm talking boyfriend girlfriend status, you don't have any right to be mad if they are involved with each other. PERIOD! If they say that they aren't ready for a relationship or you're not taking any steps to be in a?committed?relationship and you're still giving it up. Then don't be mad if they have four or five of you on the side.

If you really wanted to be with them or they really wanted to be with you, then speak up or ask. If they say no take it as a lost and move on. But if you get mad at someone that you're just in a sexual relationship with 'no strings attached' you're the one looking stupid egg on your face because you're getting mad over nothing really. I get that you're feelings maybe hurt, but you're the one that put yourself in that position no one made you do it. You understood the rules, you knew the risks, and you decided to take them. So don't be mad if you're partner goes out trolling for more. You're not with them you two aren't a "pair" get over it.

Until Next Time....

Source: http://www.kimberlylove.net/2012/08/kimberly-love-on-no-strings-attached.html

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